"The Help Meet" by Rena

Gen 2:18 "It is not good that man should be alone, I will make him an help meet for him."

God made us ladies to be a Help Meet for our husbands.  This is God's plan.  What are we to help him with?  Well, anything that he needs help with.  I walk beside my husband, not ahead or behind.  We work together, in unity.  I try to encourage him and lift him up.  The more confidence he has, the better husband, father, Man if God he becomes.  If I tear him down, well lets just say its not a happy home.

As a Help Meet I am to do whatever he needs, so that he can better do the will of our Heavenly Father.  Matt and I try to help, not hinder each other.  Are we perfect? Absolutely not.  Ask your husband, "what can I do for you?".  In return, your husband will do the same to you.

My mom always said, "treat your man like a king, and he will treat you like a queen". If your thinking, ya that doesn't work, well you tell her that.  She has been my father's Help Meet for 54 yrs now.  What an example to follow.

So, try this week to be a Help Meet, and do not be a Hinder Meet.  What a blessing you will receive.