Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Monday, May 21, 2012

"Neither Give Place to the Devil" By; Rena Frayer

                                                              Ephesians 4:27

What does this title mean?  After research, we found it means-don't give the Devil an opening.  Wow, does that open a can of worms!

What have we done or said in our marriages to give Satan an opening?  I am so guilty of this in many areas.  Satan's desire is to destroy the family unit.  He will do this any way he can.  Try not to do things that would give him an opening.

We need to guard ourselves from certain things.  Things we do, see, or say(or even think).  What do we out in our minds with the things we read or watch on TV?  Are they wholesome or garbage?  My mom use to say, "garbage in-garbage out".  It's true.   What are we saying to each other.  Is it kind, mean, or hurtful?

Lets put on the Whole Armour of God, not just a few pieces.  It will help us against the Devil when he attacks-and he will attack!

"Neither Give Place to the Devil" By Pastor Matt Frayer

                                                         EPHESIANS 4:27

What does that mean, Neither give place to the Devil?  Men, I looked and looked to get a good answer.  I finally did.  It means, do not give him a opening.  How many times in your marriage have we let the Devil get the best of us.

We allow him to take advantage of our thoughts, words, attitudes, and our actions.  The Devil does not play fair.  He is a tempter, distracter, liar, and a deceiver.  When we have a bad attitude, we give the Devil a opening.  You give him an inch, and he will take a mile.  One little opening and he will try to destroy your marriage.

My wife and I are planning on taking jars and putting 50 pennies in each one.  Each and every bad or rotten thing we say to each other, we have to give them one of our pennies.  We are also doing this with the children.  I wonder who will end up with the most pennies.

We have to guard out tongues, control our attitudes, and watch our actions.  One wrong move, and the Devil sees an opening-once that happens we have a problem.

What I am trying to say is, Please Men, do not give him an opening.  Put on the Whole Armour of God, and men Put on that Shield of Faith.  Do not let the Devil destroy your marriage.
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Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Quote for the day

"Marriage is not so much finding the right person as it is being the right person." Charles W. Shedd

Monday, May 14, 2012

"Right Words" by:Rena Frayer

James 3:8-10, vs 10"out of the same mouth proceeded blessing..."

As I think about the right words my mind goes to encouragement, positivity, and love.  Right words go a long way.  I love to hear right words from my husband. 

I have been on a weight loss journey, and I wouldn't have come as far as I have without my husbands right words.  My husband has given me words of encouragement, that keep me going and motivated.

Make sure that as you give right words, you also have action to follow.  Saying I love you means alot, but without action it means nothing.

Positivity goes a long way, even if its a little positivity.  When we wake up, say I love you.  When we leave, say I love you. When we go to bed, say I love you.  But make sure you show it by your actions.

God wants us to have a happy and healthy relationship with our spouses.  One way to start that is with right words.

"Right Words" by Pastor Matt Frayer

James 3:8-10, vs 10-"out of the mouth proceeded blessing..."

As I write this devotional, on Mother's Day, I have been careful to use the right words.  You may ask, what are the right words?  They are: I love you, I'm sorry, please forgive me, you look beautiful, or maybe I am here for you. 

Men, I know we are usually of few words.  We sometimes don't communicate well.  For the sake of your marriage, please try.  Remember, we are not perfect but we can say nice things.

Here is something I would like to share with you.  My wife had her third hernia repair surgery.  I thought I was going to loose her for a bit.  We decided to live a more healthy life style and set goals for weight loss.  She had reached her first weight loss goal, and I told her how proud I was of her.  I truly am!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  I have tried to encourage her each and every day.

Men, we can use our words of comfort and encouragement.  We do not have to use words that hurt.  Try saying positive words or "the right words" this week and truly mean it.  I guarantee you will be on the right track for a healthy and happy marriage.

Thursday, May 10, 2012