James 3:8-10, vs 10-"out of the mouth proceeded blessing..."
As I write this devotional, on Mother's Day, I have been careful to use the right words. You may ask, what are the right words? They are: I love you, I'm sorry, please forgive me, you look beautiful, or maybe I am here for you.
Men, I know we are usually of few words. We sometimes don't communicate well. For the sake of your marriage, please try. Remember, we are not perfect but we can say nice things.
Here is something I would like to share with you. My wife had her third hernia repair surgery. I thought I was going to loose her for a bit. We decided to live a more healthy life style and set goals for weight loss. She had reached her first weight loss goal, and I told her how proud I was of her. I truly am!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have tried to encourage her each and every day.
Men, we can use our words of comfort and encouragement. We do not have to use words that hurt. Try saying positive words or "the right words" this week and truly mean it. I guarantee you will be on the right track for a healthy and happy marriage.
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"IDLE WORDS" BY:Rena Frayer
Matthew 12:36, 37 "But I say unto you, that every idle word that men shall speak, They shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. for by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned."
Idle- of no account, useless, vain, unprofitable and thoughtless.
How many of us have been on the receiving end of idle words, and how many of us have been on the giving end? I don't like to be on either side. Idle words have no use in our vocabulary. Whether I am the giver or receiver of idle words, I feel horrible. There is no use for thoughtless words at all.
I know that it is our human nature to lash back, when we are on the receiving end. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 15:1, "A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger". It is hard to argue with yourself. When we choose, and I use the word choose because it is a choice, not to lash back we honor God. We are following His commands.
Homes that are loud and full of idle words are unhappy homes. We need to have more useful, encouraging, and loving words. What can we say to our husbands today that will uplift him? What will make him feel loved? Lets put idle words from our lips. Lets honor God today and everyday.
If you have used idle words, confess them before God and MOVE ON. Leave the past behind. Today is a new day.
Tip-write him a love letter
Idle- of no account, useless, vain, unprofitable and thoughtless.
How many of us have been on the receiving end of idle words, and how many of us have been on the giving end? I don't like to be on either side. Idle words have no use in our vocabulary. Whether I am the giver or receiver of idle words, I feel horrible. There is no use for thoughtless words at all.
I know that it is our human nature to lash back, when we are on the receiving end. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 15:1, "A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger". It is hard to argue with yourself. When we choose, and I use the word choose because it is a choice, not to lash back we honor God. We are following His commands.
Homes that are loud and full of idle words are unhappy homes. We need to have more useful, encouraging, and loving words. What can we say to our husbands today that will uplift him? What will make him feel loved? Lets put idle words from our lips. Lets honor God today and everyday.
If you have used idle words, confess them before God and MOVE ON. Leave the past behind. Today is a new day.
Tip-write him a love letter
"IDLE WORDS" BY; Pastor Matt Frayer
Matthew 12:36, 37 "But I say unto you, that every idle words that men shall speak, They shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. for by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by thy words thou shalt be condemned."
First off, what does the word IDLE mean: of no account, useless, vain, unprofitable and thoughtless. Men, how many times have you said to your wife things that were useless; words that we soon regret as soon as they are spoken? I lost track along time ago on how many words I said that were unprofitable to her.
I would like to tell you about a word that we should take out of our vocabulary, and that word is DIVORCE. We are so quick to lash back and say that word. Lets face it, society has made it so simple for us to get one. Just look in your local paper, its right there.
I have been in your shoes, and have said it. But that is one word I had to eliminate from my vocabulary. Words are either going to make or break a marriage. Often the only difference between a happy or troubled home are the words that are said.
If you have said idle words, the Lord wants you to confess them and ask for forgiveness. We must all stand before the Judgment Seat of Christ. Let our words be JUSTIFIED and not CONDEMNING. In closing, pleasant words will produce a sweet and healthy home.
First off, what does the word IDLE mean: of no account, useless, vain, unprofitable and thoughtless. Men, how many times have you said to your wife things that were useless; words that we soon regret as soon as they are spoken? I lost track along time ago on how many words I said that were unprofitable to her.
I would like to tell you about a word that we should take out of our vocabulary, and that word is DIVORCE. We are so quick to lash back and say that word. Lets face it, society has made it so simple for us to get one. Just look in your local paper, its right there.
I have been in your shoes, and have said it. But that is one word I had to eliminate from my vocabulary. Words are either going to make or break a marriage. Often the only difference between a happy or troubled home are the words that are said.
If you have said idle words, the Lord wants you to confess them and ask for forgiveness. We must all stand before the Judgment Seat of Christ. Let our words be JUSTIFIED and not CONDEMNING. In closing, pleasant words will produce a sweet and healthy home.
Friday, May 4, 2012
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